Showing posts with label crying during spanking. Show all posts
Showing posts with label crying during spanking. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

CRYING--THE OTHER SIDE

I didn't even think about writing about how I feel about crying as a spanker (I like to spank and be spanked).  It didn't even occur to me.  Clearly, having a man cry over my knee isn't something I think would add to the experience for me, or it would have been something I'd have thought about. 

In the spankings I've given, there have been no tears. It's not that I don't spank hard.  I've been told I'm a hard spanker!

Any guys out there who have cried during a spanking?  Did it enhance the experience.

CRYING?

One of the first prospective spankers I talked to asked me if I envisioned crying during a spanking.  I found this off-putting, maybe because I disliked the idea of him wanting to hurt me so much I cried.  Is it about inflicting pain though?  Or is a different kind of satisfaction for the spanker--and spankee?  Is it more of an emotional release?

I've never come close to crying during a spanking, but all my spankings have involved role-playing.  I wonder if I was spanked for something I really did feel ashamed about or guilty for if that would bring me to tears.